Is it wrong to want to be a "Wilting Violet"?

I'm a single, independent woman who has survived a lot. However, today while I was shoveling two feet of snow from my driveway, I wished that I could be one of those "wilting violet" ladies who let the men handle all laborious stuff around the house. Sometimes, I just want to be taken care of by a man. Is it wrong of me to want this?

Is it wrong to want to be a "Wilting Violet"?
It never wrong to want help even the most independent person needs it! Just becuse you didnt get it when you needed doesnt mean you shouldnt ask it dumb going through life thinking that. Ask for help when you needed it might even help someone. Besides it DOESNT matter your gender,race, religion etc. at one point or another everyone wants others to do stuff for them. This includes guys who want their wives to handle things like money, work, kids, etc. while they just sit around and do nothing. Everyone wants this and its not bad but dont become a lazy bum or something like that.



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Reply:It can be hard to be single sometimes but if you really don't want to shovel ect. hire some kid to do it.
Reply:hell no, your more of a blossom than a wilting violet, and by the way i have supple hands, good for massaging when you've finished shoveling. A single, independent women. mmmmmmmmm.xoxoxoxoxoxox
Reply:nah, it's not wrong, but it sure sounds lame to me. but, of course, it's totally normal to want to take a break sometimes and let someone else take the wheel.
Reply:i used to be so independent, when i was young, strong, etc. no i am older and i just adore being helped by men. or young strong women too if they're willing. its such an honor to be treated with this kind of respect. and without the help of others sometimes i don't know how i'd manage
Reply:there's nothing really wrong in wishing... its a free country right.. and we are all entitled to wish for anything... anything that we want or have wanted... it'll cost us not a single penny.. so go ahead and wish... me.. i wish too that i was there doing the things u've wished for...
Reply:u don't have 2 be a 'wilting violet' 2 get that , u can still be independent %26amp; have someone help u out w/that stuff, havin a friend or bf or neighbor kid clear u're drive way is not gonna kill u're independence. no matter the age i think every woman wants %26amp; deserves some male help @least once in a while